All models are at least 18 years old.
And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family.
I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment.
You are atheist and that's not changing. I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule.
I try to be understanding but I find myself getting so angry.
At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now.