But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS.
She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret.
I couldn't stop thinking about it all day after reading it. It's winter here and I figured she was layering for warmth.
I learned that going out and having fun with friends every single weekend was not going to be part of our lifestyle together due to time restrictions, tiredness, etc.