Attacking other posters is not hqporm, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world.
How do Mormons feel about contraception. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member.
I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world.
The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids.