Hetero se lo come.
Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career.
If not, it's better to find out now than to continue with something that isn't satisfying you. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming.
My husband is more relaxed now - even with 14 hour days - and yes, I am starting to feel like he is "coming back".
He could never tolerate my work schedule, so I became a stay at home mom.
But it is luck of the draw. She's willing to talk about anything I find directly on LDS.